Birth Control is your friend...

Let's go get you a prescription. *dialing GYN*

I'm just trying to figure out why is it okay to have children (sometimes multiple children) out of wedlock. I'm tired of hearing the excuse "People make mistakes." Yes true, people do make mistakes and most mistakes can be avoided with a little proactivity. Seriously, if you know you're going to be sexually active, why not take the proper procautions? Condoms. Birth control. They are your friend. I know they can be costly but I assure you they are cheaper than a child. If I see another person/facebook friend who is pregnant before getting married I might scream and then point and laugh. You're 25. Do better. Call me old fashioned but it's not okay to have children out of wedlock.

You're 24/25 with 2 children and no degree. *blink blink* I know that's blunt but it's real. I mean, we all have our priorities but you are doing your children a disservice by not taking care of you and getting yourself together before bringing them into the world. Your children/future children deserve the best you. Give it them.

Being supportive...

So...I'm turning over a new leaf and trying to be healthier. I'm working out. I'm watching what I eat. Blah blah blah. And I must say that I appreciate the support I've received from my boyfriend. Even though he said, "This diet sucks." He's making the effort to support me. For instance, he was grocery shopping the other evening and he made sure to get "snacks" that I could eat (pretzles, popcorn, etc.). He purposefully stayed away from all of the sweets and junk food that I love so much. I was very touched by how thoughtful he was being. And then...dun dun dun I was at his place this weekend and grabbed an oreo I only got one bite before he snatched it out of my hand and ate the other half. I was pissed. I really wanted that oreo. But I love him for being committed to the guidlines I set.

I say all this to say that if your partner is trying something new just support them. Regardless how you feel about it personally. If it's something they feel strongly about and is something that is for their betterment, you should support them. It's hard to change your lifestyle on sheer will power. It takes support from those around you.

'Tis all. Carry on.

There's no "i" in team...

but there is in sorority. LOL! No but seriously, how can we serve our fellow man if there are people with their own agendas? If you are not going to a part of the solution you are most certainly a part of the problem and you are holding us back. When there is something to be done you should say, "How can I help?" and not "That's not my job." I'm sorry you madame are wrong and I'm calling you out. Good day. And I mean that in THE most sisterly way possible.

Resolutions

As 2009 comes to a close I, like many people start to reflect on the year ahead and decide which areas of my life need changing or improving. Well lately I've seen a few Facebook statuses that go against making resolutions because you shouldn't wait for a new year to change blah blah blah. To those people I say, F*#@! You! If I want to make a new year's resolution I'm gonna do it! I mean yes, we should always be transforming into better versions of ourselves but a new year is as good a time as any to do so! That's all. Carry on with your regularly scheduled day.

Booo I can't post blogs longer than 160 characters because it's sent through text! Hmm my plan has been foiled ::sigh::

This is a test! I am becoming mobile with my blogging so when the mood strikes me I can rant on the go!

Let's just put it out there...

In the last few weeks, I have come to this one conclusion: Not everyone has the right to speak into your life. Let's break it down, shall we? If someone, who does not talk to you on a regular basis, doesn't know what's going on in your life beyond, facebook, other people, etc. they have NO right to have an opinion on what you are or are not doing. I'm so tired of people voicing their opinion on my life but I'm supposed to keep quiet about theirs. Umm what? And to those people I say: Get a life! And stay out of mine. And for real, if you have that much of an opinion about what I am or am not doing, how about you approach me about it. ::gasp:: Then, we could actually have an adult conversation about it. But noooo you've got all this to say about me behind my back and nothing but smiles and hugs in my face. Uh huh....sure. Your season is over. You may go now. Thank you.

"Those that mind don't matter. Those that matter don't mind."

This one may cause an uproar. Ask me if I care. I'll wait...