Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Karma is real...you'll see!

Let me preface this...there are some really close minded, ignorant, selfish assholes in this world.

Ready? Ok!

This weekend I went to Providence. My best friends brother just turned 21 so it was time to partay. Anywhoo...my best friend brought her boyfriend. He wanted to meet the family and stuff, which is cool. They've been dating for nearly a year so it was definitely time to mee the fam. So...we get there and the ENTIRE weekend he may have said 5 sentences...maybe! And was being really standoffish. At first I was like "Ok he's just being shy!" But my Day 2 I was like "Dude you need to perk the fuck up. You're bringing down the room." So ok...that probably didn't help the situation but damn don't be rude. Her family went out of their way to make sure he was comfortable/had everything he needed, etc.

So Sunday *insert drum roll here* he says to my friend, "I'm really uncomfortable...I don't think our families will get along..." Basically what it boils down to is this...he has money and she doesn't. PERIOD! He said that his family was better than hers and how you shouldn't date outside of your class because it will ruin your life. WHAT?!? Where does he get this shit from? Honestly, what does your socioeconomic background have anything to do with who you date. So now, we base our feelings for someone on their bank accounts? That's not love. And up until this point he seemed like the PERFECT guy...every girl's dream. Not anymore.

I find all this out Monday morning as we're preparing to leave and head to the airport. And I'm like "Oh yea?" If this had happened a few years ago...he may not have made it to the airport...at least not without a limp. He is sooo lucky that I have matured into the young woman you see before you. If I hadn't...I might be requesting some bail money. I could not believe it. Oh and get this...he thought that they would stay together after he basically told her she wasn't good enough. Dude! What are you smoking? Oh and she has student loans so that's an indicator of poverty...HELLO! Most Americans have student loan debt...it's the American way! How else was she supposed to go to school.

So at this point I'm pissed beyond measure. I told him in March "You hurt her and I'll fuck you up." Obviously he didn't take me seriously. All day at work this is all I could think about. This and trying to figure out where my Timberlands are. They might have to get put to use again. Craziness. So long story short...karma is going to come back and bite him in the ass. No lie. You can't put that kind of negative energy out into the universe and expect not to get anything back.

I told her you need to have a Waiting to Exhale moment...burn all his stuff. She still has the key to his apartment. Oh yea? That's a bet! Because you know...that's what low class people do! I can't not believe it...and it all happened so fast. What a way to end the weekend.

He will forever be an unhappy person...he will never feel fulfilled with whomever he decides to marry. If you're going to base your love and affection on a dollar sign and some zeros...unacceptable. And to think, this could have all be avoided if he had made it clear that money was his number one factor in choosing a mate. She could have nipped it in the bud MONTHS AGO.

So done...let me find my Timbs and it's OVER! I'm so glad I'm a different person now than I was a few years ago. I can't say that I'd be civil or mature about the situation.

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