Translation: He's not yours (get it? nachos?)...My heart has been a bit troubled by whether or not to blog about this for some time but somebody's gotta say it *clears throat* He is married. He will not divorce his wife. He is a liar and you need to love yourself more. Dating a married man says one thing to me, your self esteem is so low that you are willing to accept being sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, etc. Since when is it okay to be the other woman? Huh?! I mean I hear you when you say, "He's in an unhappy marriage. He's going to leave his wife." But HELLO!!!! Even if that were true it doesn't make what you're doing right. Where are your morals?
And to make matters worse, this is a repetitive behavior. I mean for real. I don't want to hear all the good men are gay or married. Not true. Obviously, you need to get yourself together before even searching for a mate/lifepartner/whatever. Stop settling. And if you don't like the type of men you're attracting then guess what, I've got news for you honey...you attract what you are. Something about you says that you'll accept whatever they give you because you don't know any better.
But what really grinds my gears: How dare you get mad when he has to tend to his obligations with his FAMILY? You knew from jump you were not number one. Let's not act brand new. Speaking of which, what about his wife? Children? Sure, you've never met them but put yourself in their shoes. Homewrecker! I don't want to hear you don't have an obligation to them. What about an obligation to yourself? To hold yourself to a higher standard? Huh.
::end rant:: I just need all my loved ones (male and female) to do better. It is okay to be single. As one of my sorors says: Alone doesn't mean lonely. Tell a friend.
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